Joining me today in The Loft is author Birdie Song. An Asian-Australian writer from Perth, Western Australia on Whadjuk-Noongar country, Birdie pens sweet contemporary romance featuring hopeful characters and optimistic endings. She believes love is more important than labels, integrity is a person's most attractive quality, and that no one should be judged for putting pineapple on a pizza. When not writing, she tends to a veggie garden and reads a variety of books, hoping to one day understand the meaning of life.
S: Welcome to The Loft, Birdie! I'm so happy you could stop by.
Do you believe in love at first sight?
B: Yes! I've experienced the Instant Love trope first hand, and know other long-term couples whose romances began with love at first sight. Sometimes, this makes me feel like I've been let in on a little secret, especially when I hear naysayers call it unrealistic. It's important to know that this is just one way a relationship can begin, and nothing's guaranteed. Every relationship, regardless of how it starts, takes commitment from everyone involved to make it work.
S: Every love story is different, from beginning to end. I've experienced love at first sight as well as other trope-like beginnings, but how we met never predicted the outcome.
Critics say romance novels mislead readers about the reality of romance and in fact, give readers false expectations. Do you agree?
B: That doesn't make sense to me. Like, it doesn't seem like a rational or logical claim. Consider that there's no one-size-fits-all template for how relationships should be, at least not in my experience. So it's hard to point to something and say, this is a universal reality for everyone. That said, I do think romance fiction can help a reader set standards for what they're willing to accept in a relationship. It's not wrong to want a supportive partner who shows up and makes an effort for you. What would it say about the state of human society if we're fine with calling something like this a false expectation?
S: Do you think romance books have become “too spicy?”
B: No, not at all! I think it's far too easy to pick up something too spicy for what you were in the mood for, but that's more a problem of inadequate book labelling or poorly thought-out marketing. In that vein, I really appreciate it when books come with clear labeling of contents, whether they're spicy or not.
S: You are definitely right about the labeling. I get pretty disgusted when I think I'm getting a tame romantic suspense story and instead, get a big dose of erotica with little suspense.S: What inspired "The Guy from the Park?"
Barnes and Noble: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-guy-from-the-park-birdie-song/1140876421
Goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/59982172-the-guy-from-the-park
Website: birdiesongauthor.com
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